That mismatch is not an accident — it is the definition of the sexes. As we saw in "The Invention of Sex," the deep split called anisogamy divided gametes into two strategies: make many tiny cheap cells and bet on numbers (sperm), or make a few enormous expensive ones and pack each with everything a new life needs to begin (eggs). The egg is the female strategy made physical. Every other difference between the sexes is downstream of this single choice about cell size.
Why so big? Because the egg is not just half a genome — it is a fully stocked larder. It carries the cytoplasm, the nutrients, the messenger RNAs, and the mitochondria that will power the first days of the embryo's life, before it can implant and draw on its mother. The sperm shows up with almost nothing but DNA and a tail. The egg supplies the factory, the fuel, and the instructions; the sperm supplies a key.
So the iconic image of fertilisation — one heroic sperm among millions racing to the prize — is half the truth. The other half is that the "prize" is itself a colossal, meticulously provisioned cell that has been under construction far longer than the race ever lasted. To understand how long, you have to go back not weeks, but a full generation.