Darwin's theory of sexual selection was a work of genius, and it did grant females a real power: mate choice, the idea that a peahen's preference could sculpt a peacock's tail. But Darwin was also a Victorian gentleman, and his picture of the sexes mirrored his era's. In The Descent of Man he described the female as "comparatively passive," the male as ardent and dominant — and he downplayed the very female choice his theory implied, because giving females that much agency unsettled both him and his peers.
The result, Cooke argues, was that a cultural assumption got laced into the science and then passed down as fact. The reasoning ran straight from the gametes: because eggs are large and costly and sperm are tiny and abundant, females "should" be cautious and monogamous and males promiscuous — and so, the logic went, females must be the restrained, secondary sex. It was a tidy story. It was also, in large part, a Victorian self-portrait dressed up as natural law.
For roughly a century, that portrait shaped what biologists expected to see — and, crucially, what they bothered to look at. If females were passive by definition, then female behaviour wasn't where the interesting evolution was happening, so why study it closely? The bias didn't just get the answer wrong. It decided which questions were worth asking.